August 31, 2003

Why Baseball in DC matters

Bob Thompson of the Washington Post took his daughter on an 8 day 7 game whirlwind tour of baseball games. It's a wonderful story and well worth the time to read. My upcoming baseball trip is only 2 games Red Sox - White Sox & Phillies - Marlins) and the Hall of Fame in 5 days. I'll write about my trip too, but it won't be as well written as Bob's work. He is a professional after all.

One thing he mentions is how the lack of a team here in DC keeps us all from having those shared memories that are so important to a sense of community. Football just doesn't elicit the same reaction. The season is too short, I think. I mean, I could walk up to just about any long time resident of Boston and they could tell me exactly where they were when Buckner let the grounder roll through his legs. ( I was walking from the Phi Sig house at the University of Illinois to a bar. We thought the series was in the bag and were trying to beat the rush to the bars.) Think anybody around here can remember (or even cares) where they were when the Redskins last won a Superbowl?

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It costs to be absent in Los Alimitos, NM

Loa Alimitos, NM expects parents to reimburse the school when a student is absent. I want to think this is a joke, but unfortunately, it isn't. The LA Times charges for access, so no link. I wonder if a homeschooler is absent for the entire year? Note to NM homeschoolers. If they call asking for money, the proper response is "the checks in the mail" or maybe "kiss my ass." Either would be appropriate :)

This article is in the 8/28 L.A. Times.


District Requests $40 Per Absence
Los Alamitos Unified is asking parents to voluntarily reimburse it for state
funds lost when a child misses school. Some have complied.
By Claire Luna
Times Staff Writer

August 28, 2003

Students absent from classes in the Los Alamitos Unified School District
need an excuse from home. A $40 check for each missed day would be nice too,
the district says.

The request was contained in a letter to parents discussing the value, both
academic and financial, of coming to school all day, every day. It noted
that 80% of the district's revenue comes from state contributions based on
daily student attendance < about $40 per student per day.

District officials emphasize that the parent checks to reimburse the
district for lost state revenue are strictly voluntary, but note that in
times of tight budgets, every dollar counts.

Most parents registering students at Los Alamitos High School on Wednesday
afternoon said it's a guilt trip they're not willing to take.

"I think the schools ask for enough money as it is," said Jean Scheele,
noting the cost of cheerleader outfits, yearbooks and volleyball games for
her sophomore daughter. "When does it stop?"

The idea surfaced last year when the district sent out a similar letter <
sans the direct appeal for money < and some parents sent in $40 checks, said
Supt. Carol Hart. This summer, administrators decided to issue the plea.

"Should a student be absent," the letter reads, "parents/guardians are
encouraged to support the schools, if at all possible, by sending a check to
LAUSD for $40 per day of absence."

Hart said the letter was mainly intended to drive home an absence's effect
on learning and school funding but said she hopes it will generate some
funds.

"We would love it if as many parents could as possible," she said.. "But we
only encourage it if they can afford to. This is only if they can and are
willing."

It all depends, parents say.

"If I were to take my kids out of school for a vacation or something, I'd
donate the money because I'd feel bad," said Laura Lindquist, whose three
sons attend school in the 10-campus district.

"But our family isn't going to plan something on school time anyway."

When it comes to children being sick, though, it seemed no one plans to
cough up the $40. "I wouldn't feel responsible in that case," Lindquist
said.

"It's not like I let them stay home for no reason. When they're sick,
they're sick, and parents shouldn't be punished for keeping them away from
other kids."

The district lost $1.1 million last year because of absences. As in other
districts, that money is used for fixed costs: costs incurred even when
children don't come to school, including textbooks, utilities and teacher
salaries.

San Marino Unified School District has undertaken similar efforts for more
than a decade, and has recouped an estimated 50% of lost state aid with
voluntary parent reimbursements.

"Most parents are very responsive," said school board President Robert Gayl.
"They have been really good about understanding our need."

Jeri Wenger, a consultant for the state's Assn. of School Business Officials
and whose La Verne-based consulting group conducts statewide attendance
workshops, said districts are being more creative in their fund-raising
efforts.

The Los Alamitos letter rightfully makes parents partly responsible for
their children's attendance, she said.

"As long as it's a donation and it's done voluntarily, it's an appropriate
thing for parents to do if they so choose," Wenger said.

The state's Parent Teacher Assn. encourages districts to inform families
about the value of attendance. But making entreaties for money is a touchy
issue, said PTA spokeswoman Linda Mayo.

"Superintendents and school boards must carefully consider how a plea for
reimbursement will be perceived," she said. "What might be uncomfortable in
one community could be welcomed in another."

As in Los Alamitos, a handful of parents in the Saddleback Valley Unified
School District have voluntarily sent checks to the school to cover
absences, said Laura Ott, assistant to Supt. Jerry Gross.

"We have some really conscientious parents who know that budgets are tight
and money is short," Ott said. "It's kind of nice of them to send in the
money, but we'd rather the child be in school."

Capistrano Unified Supt. James A. Fleming said he had no plans to implement
anything like Los Alamitos' fund-raising.

Rather, trustees last week approved plans to reward students for good
attendance, using the extra revenue received at campuses with increased
attendance over last school year. Individual students will receive a range
of prizes for perfect or improved attendance, such as priority parking, a 3%
bump in their final grades and being entered in a districtwide drawing for a
brand-new car.

"We're using the carrot approach," Fleming said. "We've seen a tendency from
parents and children to be a little casual when it comes to attendance. We
don't think that's good for children's education, and we know it's not good
for our financial situation."

Children who are seriously ill shouldn't come to school, he said.

"But when you feel like starting the ski weekend a day early or you just
don't feel fully up to par, come on to school anyway," he added. "Children
cannot learn if they're not there."

In 1998, California policy regarding attendance changed so that even excused
absences for religious holidays or illnesses did not entitle schools to
funding. Also, secondary school teachers must take attendance every period,
and if a student is absent for one or more, the campus loses funding
accordingly.

Structuring funding that way is unfair to students, said Susan Wooley,
executive director of the Ohio-based national American School Health Assn.
It puts pressure on parents to force kids to come to school when they're
sick and prompts districts to make such unusual appeals as Los Alamitos has,
she said.

"Unfortunately, the reality of how we've set up the education system isn't
necessarily what's best for kids," she said.

If you want other stories on this topic, search the Archives at
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Copyright 2003 Los Angeles Times

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American Gods - Neil Gaiman

I read it. I enjoyed it. Can't say I really understood it though. The writing is marvelous. The sense of place he builds in the small midwestern towns is so real you can almost touch it. Having done the small midwestern town thing, I felt right at home reading the book. The ending was a let down, but that might be because I'm missing the point.

if you've read it - feel free to discuss in the comments. Maybe you can clue me in? If not - get the book and enjoy.

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The Wrong Stuff vs Ball Four

I read these two book consecutively. Ball Four by Jim Bouton is "the" baseball classic. The ultimate insiders look at what really happens in the clubhouse. Maybe it was controversial in 1970, but today, it all seemed pretty tame. Baseball players cheat on their wives and drink too much. Big news there eh? What I did find very interesting in this book was the average players struggle with money. Getting traded was a hardship not because of the move or inconvenience, but because you lost the deposit on your apartment. These guys were really hurting for money a lot of the time.

The Wrong Stuff by Bill Lee is frigging hilarious. There are more than a couple of laugh out loud moments. Bill played right around when free agency became a reality, so the before and after perspective is quite interesting. His stories are much funnier than Bouton's. In fairness, Lee has an entire career to choose from, Bouton wrote about one season. Bouton also stuck to booze, while Bill seemed willing to inhale or ingest just about anything. David Wells may claim to pitch while drunk, but Bill talks about pitching while tripping on psychedelic drugs.

Both books are must reads for any baseball fan.

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The Little Red (Sox) Book - A Revisionist Red Sox History

What if the Sox hadn't sold Babe Ruth to the Yankees? What if the Kennedys, and not Tom Yawkey had bought the team? What if Ted Williams didn't miss 6 years due to military service? For that matter, what if Bill Lee had been pitching against Bucky Dent, and not Mike Torrez?

Bill "Spaceman" Lee tackles these, and other issues in his very entertaining book. Bill was one of the great characters of baseball - guys like him aren't allowed in the league anymore. You do have to wade through a bit of socialist drivel and quotes from Mao, but Bill is a socialist, and it is his book.

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August 30, 2003

Spike Lee is an Asshole

Today Spike Lee was invited to throw out the ceremonial first pitch at Fenway Park. He walked out onto the field in Yankees cap and Derek Jeter shirt. I'm surprised the Sox let him on the field, but maybe they figured the very loud chorus of boos raining down from the fans would better make the point.

The Fox broadcast team made no mention of it. I saw it mentioned in the Yahoo sports write up of the game. I'm not linking to it because Yahoo links tend to go bad within a day or two.

Note: Lee was an asshole long before this event. Now he is an even bigger asshole.

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August 29, 2003

Whatever Happened to Steve (from Blue's Clues)?

He is a wanna be rock star currently touring in support of his first album. It's not my kind of music, but it doesn't totally suck.

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August 28, 2003

Site Updates

If you look around, you should notice....

  • New drop down box for monthly archives
  • Category archives now show list of entries linked to the individual entry page, instead of the entire post. Some of the category pages were getting too large.
  • Several new additions to the blogroll.

    Coming Soon

  • A search engine
  • All site pages (even the static pages) manageable by MT.

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Do It Yourself Drive In

I've often lamented the demise of the drive in movie theater. Check out this simple (and in retrospect painfully obvious) backyard theater setup. All you need is a portable screen, or white sheet stretched tight across the garage, a laptop with a DVD player or just a regular DVD player, and a set of amplified PC speakers.

My wife is probably trembling with fear as she reads this ;)

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Why Nerds are Unpopular

Continuing the bullying theme, this essay takes a rather unique approach to answering the above question.

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WWHS: Death of a schoolboy

An 11 year old in England kills himself rather than deal with the torment of bullies at school. Knowing only the details in the article, it's hard to form any opinion beyond how sad this is. However, as bullying goes, this didn't sound that bad. There was no mention of physical abuse, it sounds like the standard teasing of somebody different that all kids deal with to some degree. I wonder if there is more to this story that we don't know?

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Yet Another Reason to Hate Jeter

No commentary needed.

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August 25, 2003

Failure Is Not An Option

If you didn't watch Failure Is Not An Option on the History Channel last night, check your local listings and don't miss the encore presentation. (As it's produced by the History Channel, I suspect there will be ample opportunity to see it again). It's the story of NASA - nothing really unique there. However it is based on Gene Kranz's book, and is told from the viewpoint of the guys in Mission Control.

Fascinating. I'll be buying the book real soon.

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August 22, 2003

Career Advice from a fan

Suzannah writes that Chris should star in his own movie. He's done that what, 5 or 7 times since Batman & Robin? His fans need to get out more.


From: Misticeyes77@aol.com | This is spam | Add to Address Book
Date: Thu, 21 Aug 2003 16:12:48 EDT
Subject: **hey** :-)
To: chrisodva@yahoo.com

Hey,
Just wanted to say that u did an awsome job off of the Batman and Robin movie! =)
(It should be Robin and batman) -but george cloony was good too.
U'r probably getting alot of the "ur soo hot and I love you" biz so I'll cut that out..lol. (but just know that its true, lol.. ;-)
I think you should star in ur own movie, you'd be awsome. (do u think u will?)
I would luv it if u wrote back.. Misticeyes77@aol.com
thank you sooo much!~ :-)
ttys I hope..
Luv ur fan and friend,
Suzannah K.

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August 21, 2003

Sprint PCS really, really sucks.

I just canceled Michelle's Sprint PCS service. The phone was dying, and we decided to go with a pay as you use it plan from Virgin Mobile as she doesn't use the phone that often.

Sprint is going to bill me through the full billing period to Sept 8. They claim they don't pro-rate and only bill monthly.

I suspect they might have a room full of old ladies switching calls still too.

Thank you for calling Sprint, how may we screw you today.

Asswipes.

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Little League World Series

I'm watching a lot of the LLWS. This is baseball at its purest. No money, no holdouts, no fights, just 9 kids on a side playing their hearts out. Watching it reminds of why I fell in love with the game in the first place.

On a related note, the Saugus MA team, on their way to the USA final, received a call from Nomar and a few other Red Sox prior to their first game in the LLWS. Further, when the games coincide, (like tonight) the Red Sox are tracking the Saugus score on the Green Monster along with the MLB teams. How cool is that? Even better, next week during the Toronto series, the kids from Saugus will be introduced before the game, and will run out to their positions at Fenway as though they were playing.

Again, how cool is that? The new management team of the Red Sox has clue.

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HSLDA vs. VHEA

This should add some excitement to the various Virginia email lists for the next week or two.

I'm not a big fan of either organization. HSLDA, is run by lawyers. I assume they trademarked HSLDA a long time ago. They will probably have this shut down, or at least the domain changed, within a week. That said, they are probably better off ignoring it. The furniture in the HSLDA conference room cost more than the annual budget for VHEA. (I'm not exaggerating - I've seen both). My point being that VHEA doesn't have the resources to take on HSLDA, at least not in any kind of public way.

Why is Darrel's Deleware based blog my primary source of information on homeschooling related news in Virginia? Shouldn't VHEA be serving in that role? Especially since they are so sure that HSLDA is not objective. I'm not disagreeing with them, just suggesting that their time would be better spent building the infrastructure to be THE source of homeschooling information in VA- and not just the homeschooling organization for people that don't like HSLDA and HEAV (HSLDA's state organization), which really is what they are right now.

Note: I would guess that VHEA did not officially sponsor this site. However, I'm willing to bet it's primarily VHEA members behind it (and I could probably name names with a fairly high degree of certainty), and the site certaintly reads like it is endorsed by VHEA, even if it isn't explictly stated anywhere.

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August 20, 2003

Would You Go on TV?

Imagine for a moment that you left a comment over at Michele's blog regarding the Kobe Bryant situation. Further, imagine that somebody at ESPN saw the comment and sent you an email asking if you would answer a few questions about how you are dealing with the Kobe Bryant stuff with your 9-year old Kobe fan.

Now imagine that something you wrote in the email reply caught their attention, and they called you and asked about coming to your house with a reporter, producer and film crew to film an interview for Outside The Lines discussing the Kobe Bryant situation and how you are dealing with it as a parent. The show would feature 3 families, and then host Bob Ley would have psychologists as guests to discuss the issue.

Would you do it? We've been wrestling with this issue for the last two days.

After 4 or 5 phone conversations with the ESPN folks, Michelle could just not get comfortable with the idea so we declined to participate. I thought it would be an interesting experience. Also, since I'm not going to be a web gem anytime soon, this was probably my only shot a fulfilling the male fantasy of being on ESPN :)

Oh well, back to my regularly scheduled life I guess.

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August 19, 2003

Happy Anniversary Sweetie

Fred posted the story of how he met his wife (blind date.) Since I too met my wife on a blind date (sort of), I thought I'd share the story here. This is a particularly good day to do this, since today is our 12th anniversary.

The year was 1987. The month was February. I'm 90% sure the date was the 21st, but it might have been the 28th. I and several fraternity brothers had made our way to the Theta Xi fraternity house for a party. Upon arriving, we headed up the stairs to the party. Coming down the stairs at that exact time (on their way out) were Michelle and a friend. Michelle and my friend John knew each other from living in the same dorm the previous year. Conversation ensued, and at some point that night Michelle asked John to go to a sorority dance with her.

John had a girlfriend. Actually I did too.

The next day when we sobered up, John decided that he would never get away with the sorority dance date, and asked me if I was interested in pinch hitting for him. My foggy memory of the previous nights proceedings did include me thinking Michelle was cute, so I said yes.

Michelle tentatively agreed, pending coming over to our place for a party the next weekend. Apparently, I didn't overwhelm her with my charm and good looks at the frat party that night. This meant I had to keep my current girlfriend away from our frat house the next weekend. So I concocted some story about drinking with the guys and convinced her it was a good night to party separately.

Michelle came over, we talked, we danced, and all was going swimmingly well. A group of us were in John's room partaking of whatever overly alcoholic concoction he was mixing up in the blender (probably Tom Collins) when one of our pledges said he needed to talk to me. When I stepped out of John's room the pledge told me that my girlfriend was downstairs looking for me.

Oops.

I don't remember how long it took me to get rid of her, probably five minutes, although it seemed like an hour as I imagined all the bad things that would happen if they came face to face. ( I should note the existing girlfriend was someone I had met a week or two previously, not somebody I was seriously involved with.) Anyway, the evening progressed and as the party wound down I walked Michelle back to her dorm.

We kissed goodnight, and I fell in love. Although I had a fine time with her that evening, nothing that had transpired hinted at the flock of butterflies that would take over my stomach when we kissed for the first time. I sorted floated home with a weird feeling that this was different than the revolving door of girlfriends I had maintained up to that point in my life. A couple of weeks later we went to her sorority dance, and were officially "a couple."

That weird feeling was prophetic, we were married 4-1/2 years later.

I don't know if was random chance, Clotho spinning the threads of fate, or the hand of God at work that night. It's a little scary to contemplate just how important one 15 second span of time was to my life. If we get to the Theta Xi party 15 seconds earlier or later, we don't run into Michelle in the stairwell, John and Michelle don't start talking, and he never gets the opportunity to set up the date. And I certainly wouldn't be as happy as I am today.

Happy Anniversary sweetie.

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August 18, 2003

I am way cooler than Batman

I read it on the Internet, so it must be true :)

From: "Lozzie Aspden" | This is spam | Add to Address Book To: chrisodva@yahoo.com Subject: u r sooooooooo cute chris!!! Date: Sat, 16 Aug 2003 15:26:12 +0000

Hi chris,
i absouletly adore u coz ure sooooooooo cute especially in all the
Batman
& Robin films (u r way cooler than Batman) when u wear those gorge
tight
trousers!!!!!! i would just be so happy if u emailed me! my address is
angel_fire_star@hotmail.com pleazzz reply soon!!!!
Loads and Loads of Luv,
Lauren (on the Isle of Wight)!

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August 15, 2003

Blogs & Place

This weeks Ecotone subject is blogs and place. Physically, ODonnellWeb exists on a Linux server in Lompac, CA. Of course, several hundred times a day it exists temporarily in the memory of whatever computer is accessing the site. That would be at least 3 continents and probably 20 odd states daily.

Oh, wait a minute. That is probably not what they meant by "blogs & place." :)

Place, in reference to ODonnellWeb is not really a physical concept. It's mental. It's the same difference you find between Where are you? and Where are you at, man? (Say the second one in a droopy stoner voice for full effect). ODonnellWeb started as a way to share my stupid humor, political opinions, and the occasional family story with a few friends. Somewhere along the way, I picked up a bunch of new friends. Yes, friends. I don't consider them readers. Ultimately, I produce this site for my own enjoyment. I'm not a journalist or columnist with some responsibility to my readers. I'm a guy with a blog, writing about whatever interests me at the moment. If that interests you too and you come along for the ride, great. If not, I'm not going to worry about it.

In the end, the site is just an extension of me. The current tagline, This is my Brain on the Internet, is not that far from the truth. I've never used a pseudonym, never tried to hide the real me. I'm not making some sort of statement, or saying anything against those that do hide their true identity. I'm just too lazy to bother. Honesty is the shortest and easiest path from point A to point B, so I took it. If I'm mad, frustrated, cranky, tired, whatever, you'll see it in the writing.

A couple of years ago, a researcher at The University of Texas asked me to participate in a study. They were studying to what extent personal web sites reflected the true personality of the creator. They decided that ODonnellWeb was an almost perfectly true reflection of me, or at least the me that I think I am.

I took that as a very good thing.

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CD Review: Queensryche - Tribe

Many of the Queensryche sites on the Web are bitching about this album. Then again, I'm pretty sure these are the same people that have bitched about every album since Mindcrime. Look, Operation Mindcrime was a classic, maybe one of the 10 best rock albums ever. They aren't going to do it again. Get over it.

That said, I like Tribe. It's a laid back album by Queensryche standards. It's moody, almost atmospheric, with some definite international influences. There are Middle Eastern vibes, some African drumming, etc mixed into the songs. IMHO, it makes for an enjoyable listening experience.

Will it make grab you by the lapels, and pull you out of your seat to raise your fist and shake it at authority, ala Mindcrime? Of course not. These guys are 40 years old with kids, and presumably, so are many of their fans. I don't want to be pulled up to fight anymore. Leave me in my recliner, and fetch me a beer. I'll be much happier that way :)

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Bad Typing Habits

Do you ever get into a bad habit with the keyboard? Lately, I consistantly use the semi-colon when I want the apostrophy, and I keep typing teh instead of the. I never learned to type properly in the first place, so I'm having a hard time breaking the habit.

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August 14, 2003

Help a local band!

A friend's band, Evenout (previously known as CombinationLock) has been selected as one of the 50 best unsigned bands in the US. The winner of this competition gets to play on the American Music Awards in Nov.

If you have time to read the crap I post here, you definately have the 20 seconds required to go to http://www.newmusicaward.com/the_50.html

select Evenout

and rate them a 5. They have 3 MP3's posted there too.

Leave a comment if you do this.

Thanks

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August 11, 2003

Like, Death to the Empire, I'm so sure...

Remember the assault on the Death Star on Star Wars? What if one of the X-Wing pilots had been a Valley Girl? This 5 minute film, winner of the 2003 Star Wars fan film award is quite funny. And kudos to George Lucas for judging the competition, and not just suing everybody involved into oblivion.

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Iron Maiden Frontman is a commerical pilot

Apparently, one of the benefits of rock stardom is the time and money to do stuff like get a commercial pilots license and fly as a second job.

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August 10, 2003

CD Review: Rob Russell & The Sore Losers - I Think We're Gonna Alright

My monthly Village Records email described these guys as "John Mellencamp fronting The Replacements."

3 minutes later I had ordered the CD from them without even bothering to search for MP3 samples. Sometimes you just gotta have faith.

My faith was rewarded. This is the best album I've heard this year. I've had it for a week and I have listened to it all the way through every single day. Midwestern bar room rock and roll with a bluesy, rootsy vibe that gets your toes tapping, and you reaching for the repeat play button. This record will probably go nowhere commercially, proving once again that the record companies have their collective asses up their heads.

Buy it - you can thank me later.

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Book Review: Dancing Barefoot - Wil Wheaton

Simply put, Wil's first effort at publishing is a winner. The book is thin, containing 5 stories that didn't make the cut for his still in the works autobiography, Just a Geek. I read it cover to cover on the commute home one day. That not to imply the book is too short. It's more an issue of my commute being too long. When he wrote of crying at the loss of his Aunt, I felt it. Not because I had been through the same thing, but because of the exact opposite. When my Dad died, I bottled it all up inside. In the process, I lost 20 pounds and went months without a decent nights sleep. The stories from behind the scenes at a Star Trek convention are hilarious, and we learn how his idol, Captain James T Kirk, became William Fucking Shatner.

His seemingly universal appeal to geeks is based on the fact that at his core, he is one of us. Often, it's hard to imagine TV stars and athletes as ever being "normal." I have no doubt that had he gone to high school with me, he would have been there at the school on Saturday's playing D&D with us. (Yes, I voluntary met a bunch of fellow geeks and one geek teacher at the school on Saturdays to play Dungeons & Dragons. ) This book could have completely sucked and I would not have been upset about spending $15. I want Wil to make it. After all, he's just a geek.

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August 08, 2003

Marital success can be predicted with Math

A mathematician claims to have devised a 2 line algebraic formula that predicts the success of a marriage with 94% accuracy. The inputs are plus and minus scores based on a 15 minute observation of the newlywed couple discussing issues like sex, money, and child rearing.

I think I can do this in one line of algebra. Let X = positive responses in conversation, let Y= negative responses.

If X>Y then couple will be happily married.

Can I get a PHD for that blinding flash of the obvious?

If this is legitimate however, it could be the key educators have been searching for to get girls interested in math!

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August 07, 2003

Dying Teen Gets Wish - Meets Queensryche

Truly inspiring. The band went way beyond the expected "come say hi to a dying kid routine." I'm a Queensryche fan from the early days and the song samples from the new album did not excite me. I'll have to give another listen - these guys deserve to be supported.

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August 06, 2003

It's a kids game - get a clue

Today I was coaching third base in Little League. Nomar Jr hit a sharp grounder to third, which was fielded cleanly by the 3rd baseman. She (yes, a girl) air mailed the throw to first which resulted in Nomar ending up at second and a run scoring. The opposing coach came out and yelled at this poor girl, instructing her to not attempt any more throws to first.

I was incensed. It's youth baseball, the point is to teach the kids how to play. How the hell is she supposed to learn if the asshat coach is instructing her not to try in an attempt to improve his chance of winning the game. Last year in Pee Wee ball I expected the kids to attempt the throw to first even though there wasn't a kid on the team that could actually throw it that far. It didn't matter - they can learn what to do, even if they can't actually do it yet.

The next inning he was yelling again when she was not in position to take a throw at third because she had ranged to her left to try and field the ball. Actually, I thought she made a decent play. You can't expect a 9 year old to instantly know the shortstop will make that play. As soon as she realized he was going to catch it she headed for third. The shortstop threw the ball to third, hitting her in the back. If anybody was at fault (and really, nobody was) it was the shortstop. The kid fielded the ball and threw it to the correct base. That is really all you can ask for at this age. I came very close to speaking up at that point, but I didn't. Where are her parents? I can guarantee you the first youth coach the treats my kids that way will hear about it immediately. There won't even be any waiting for the end of the game. I did wait for her to pass after the inning and I told her I thought she was doing great. I'm sure it was the only positive reinforcement she heard all day. Part of the reason I volunteer to coach is defensive - to avoid asshat youth coaches that are trying to make up for their own failures as athletes. My concern is not the kid's ego- that will survive. It's the thought that a potential lifelong love of a sport like baseball can be ruined in childhood by some hyped up parent determined to win at all costs.

I have three simple goals for every team I coach.

1. Have fun.
2. Improve as a team every game.
3. Improve individually every game.

The interesting thing is that when we focus on those three things, we tend to win a lot of games anyway.

Oh, and we did win the game 7-4. Nomar Jr. was 2-3 with a walk and 3 RBI's, including the game winning RBI.

Tomorrow we play for the league championship against a team with 3 illegal players. The city knows, they don't care as they don't have time to police the rules. The rules specifically say that you can't play in another league at the same time. The purpose is to avoid superstar studs from AAU or American Legion baseball who are way above the talent level in the city league.

The illegal players are all playing AAU concurrently to the city league. We've played them twice and managed 1 hit in two games. I don't think I could hit their pitching. These kids are throwing 60 mph from 36 feet away. If you do the math, that is about the same reaction time for the batters as they have in professional baseball.

Little League - 60 mph traveling 36 feet = .409 seconds travel time

Pro ball - 90 mph traveling 60 feet = .456 seconds travel time.

Shit. it's actually more difficult to hit in Little League!

And what lesson are these kids learning? That it's OK to cheat, as long as you win.

Great job coach.

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Spam works for the Spammer

A security hole at a spam site let Wired News download an order database with 6000 orders for penis enlargement pills at $50 an order. That is just since July 4. Wired didn't name any names, but did give a brief list of job titles that purchased the pills. All people that should know better...

Sigh...$300,000 revenue in one month - assume a 50% margin, which is probably a low estimate, and we have a $150,000 profit in 30 days.

It's almost enough to make you ask, where do I sign up?

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Homeschool ripoff?

Darrel is not happy with 3moms.com. They are packaging up freely available state compliance information for homeschoolers and selling it. He sees it as a scam.

I really don't. It's a bad business model that won't work IMO, but it's not necessarily a scam. Really, what does Google do? It indexes freely available information and makes it easy to find. It's a multi-million dollar business. 3 Moms isn't doing anything that different. They are making a big mistake that will probably doom the business though.

Homeschoolers are notoriously cheap. We don't like to spend money unnecessarily. We are already absorbing the tax burden of the public schools while shelling out hundreds to thousands of dollars every year educating our kids at home. Money that is not tax deductible by the way. 3 Moms is charging way too much when you realize that most of what they are offering is available for free on the state homeschool association web sites, and I think most of it is available at HSLDA too.

What 3 Moms should do is make their compliance kits freely downloadable and sell advertising both in the kit and on the page. They could also collect email addresses and send out a bi-weekly or monthly advertising supported newsletter full of interesting info for new homeschoolers. That would be a sustainable business model. Selling one time info to confused newbie homeschoolers will fail. Even if they sell a few kits, people will be pissed when they realize they could have had all the info for free and the relationship will be ruined. Give the info away, and use the trust that develops to build a profitable relationship with the customer.

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August 05, 2003

Vacation? in North Korea

A very entertaining account of a trip to North Korea, from one of us living in South Korea who got a chance to visit.

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August 04, 2003

Local HS Mom running for school board

Don't you just love the Internet? I had to go to Darrel's Deleware based homeschool blog to learn that a HS mom in my county in VA is running for school board.

I don't really agree with her platform though. She is in favor of increased access to public school facilities for homeschoolers. I opted out of the system and I'm comfortable with that. With increased access will come increased regulation. Lots of people without kids in the public schools are paying to support the system. The real problem is that the system spends way too much money for inferior results.

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August 01, 2003

More Footwear advice for men

It is never, ever acceptable to wear Birkenstocks with a suit.

I've got to start taking a digital camera to work with me.

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The Tree & The Big Tree

Note: Fred has encouraged me (and probably anybody else who visits his blog) to join him and a few others in a bi-weekly writing effort focusing on "Place." This weeks subject is Trees and Place. It immediately triggered a memory - so I'm in this week. No guarantees I'll be a regular...but we'll see.

My first memories of childhood come from Torrejon, Spain, a small town outside of Madrid. My father was in the USAF, a member of the Strategic Air Command helping protect the world from the evil commies in the USSR and East Germany. We lived off-base, in a community of Americans that did not qualify for on base housing. The central gathering point for the kids of the neighborhood was The Tree.

I can't even guess at what type of tree it was. It was large and it's defining characteristic, and the reason it was so popular with the kids, was a wealth of very low hanging, very thick and sturdy branches. This was a tree designed for climbing, and climb we did. This tree seemed to have a safe occupancy level of about a dozen kids. I'm not sure the fire marshall would have approved, but I can't remember anybody ever falling out and being seriously injured. I also don't remember us allowing girls in the tree. This was back in the early 70's and the whole equal rights thing had not reached us yet I guess :) I'm not a height guy today , and I wasn't back them either. Although I did climb the tree, I had to if I wanted to maintain my standing among the other 6-8 year boys, I think I stayed on the lower branches most of the time.

This particular tree had another feature too. It extended over the fence and into the swamp. The swamp was off limits. It was not part of the military facility, and we were warned time and time again by our parents to stay out of the swamp. It was land owned by a crazy Spanish farmer who shot at American kids on his property. It was a dangerous place, inhabited by snakes and gypsies and all sorts of dangerous things. Of course, crazy guys with guns and mysterious gypsies are just the sort of things bored 7 year old boys are looking for. If they had told us the swamp was infested with girls we probably would have stayed away. As it was, we spent a lot of time in the swamp. We got in by climbing The Tree and jumping down on the other side of the fence. I don't remember seeing any snakes or gypsies. I do have a vague memory of a shotgun warning, although I really don't know if it actually happened, or it was the product of our over active imaginations. Probably the latter...

The big kids hung out at The Big Tree (Our naming conventions lacked pizzazz). The Big Tree was off base somewhere, not accessible by foot or pedal power. The big kids used their mopeds to get there. Again, I have no idea what kind of tree it was. The big kids had built a fort in the tree. As I remember it, it wasn't much of a fort. It was a few planks spread between branches and a floor made out of scrap plywood. Ever once in a while, the big kids would let us come out to the The Big Tree with them. They gave us rides on their mopeds. This being the early 70's helmets were for sissies. I remember the big tree being fairly remote. It wasn't a good climbing tree at all. You really couldn't do anything there except climb up to the fort, which of course was off limits to us little kids. We were just happy to be there. The big kids would climb up into the fort, have a smoke, and then we would go back home. It seemed so exciting at the time.

As I was writing this, the appeal of The Big Tree finally hit me. This was the early 70's - smoking was cool. The big kids could smoke cigarettes on base all they wanted. I bet those weren't Marlboros they were smoking at The Big Tree. Funny how that connection hit me almost 30 years later.

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